Teringat time-time dulu..!

At Penang now are so hot, so drought.. it seems like to be a 'thy season' (kemarau). Dah tak hujan berminggu-minggu! So nothing much to do.. During afternoon, me and Zura having lunch with my parents in law at IRC (Island Red Cafe). Its got a nice food, beverages!! You all should try also, be a member.. hehehe!

Evening time, when try to make a 'housekeeping' on this PC.. opened a folder on my wedding day, suddenly i laugh heartily. Its been 1year and 2months since i got married with Zura.

the 'wording'

See the last time pictures, from my "akad nikah ceremony until bersanding" how we try to make something merry.. thanks to our families, friends and all the peoples that involved because of giving all thier co-operations to turn it to be so splendid!!

THE AKAD-NIKAH CEREMONY

THE 'TRANSFORM' OF ZURA

BERSANDING-BELAH PENGANTIN PEREMPUAN

BERSANDING-RUMAH PENGANTIN LELAKI (SIDE I LA TU..)

Its been a wonderful year since i got married. My marriage life was so average, but fulled with happiness, understanding (gaduh sket2 tu normal la..).

Bride vs Puteri

Da time was runnin' so sooo fast! Pejam celik pejam celik dh nk abish weekend.. arrghh then hav to go back to work, masok kandang.. of course!!

For da weekend, me n Ery not doin' anyting. My parent also are not at Penang, but at tis moment they already here.. hehee smpai Penang pg tadi! We decid goin' to watch movie, bookin' online. Pilih punya pilih.. at las we agree to watch "Bride Wars"!!

For me, i felt tat da movie was entertaining and "cute," but in da end it was a pretty predictable "chick-flick." At least, n tis is someting to b grateful for, Bride Wars deviates from da usual wedding-flick routine of maids of honor who should be the bride (or groom). N even though da catfighting goes over da top, da notion tat a passionate female friendship can turn ugly in a heartbeat is, sadly, realistic.. (so sad also) So for all da female bride to be or even already.. y not go n watch it!!

For my mum n abah, 1 of da activity tat they had been doin' over there was watchin' a musical "PUTERI GUNUNG LEDANG 3". (huihh mana aci, sakan depa nie..). They get da tickets from my sista in law. Her workin' place had gave them a couple tickets to go.. Bcoz of my sista cannot go (mana nk letak anak2 saudaraku nnt..?) happen to b also my parents was over there, so she decide to gave them da tickets. How lucky they are ya..kira hadiah "Birthday" la jgk nie!! (mak, are jeles tau!!) Da musical wil have a third run at da Istana Budaya in from February 6 to 21, 2009.




She said tat da it was her first time in her life tat she was given a chance to watch musical theater.. Puteri Gunung Ledang 3......It was superb..!! Wit all da magical touch like they mentioned in the paper.. She so in love to see da dance.. OMG is really fantastic.. i wish i could watch they dance too. Eventhough got a few error.. but she said it was ran smoothly.

Tis season's production is bigger and better. She said tat she could not believe in her eyes when she watched it. It's like a magical performance on stage.They brought in da ship! Tat part looks better compared to da previous season. She love's da "7 Syarat" part. Da music, da scene n da act = Awesome!!.

She n my father said tat Puteri Gunung Ledang 3 is a MUST-SEE performance of 2009. It is great. You'll see the magic! (eeeiii jeles abis tau..!!) Hope ada season 4 ka, then we all can go n watch plak ye mak.. (ada ka..?)

So sesapa yg tinggal kat area KL tu, y not spend sket 'onkos' tu go n watch it..? ! My mum n abah said u won't b loss..!! (",)

Bride Wars

Along this week just left me and Zura at home. My parents in law already at KL at my bro in law house. Actually, Zura's mother had followed her brother back since last weekend after they came back for celebrating her mother birthday!!

Then her father plak follow, on Wednesday.. taking a bus after work around 630pm. So, nothing to do on Saturday we decide to watch a movie. Though on watching 'Ong Bak'.. but realize the "hero" tak seBEST yang dulu, then we decide to watch "BRIDE WARS"!!

It's hard to know which is more disheartening: the concept behind Bride Wars, or the fact that its female creators and stars seem to somehow think it's empowering (saya nie org lelaki kan!!) A movie in which two women turn into illogical banshees the moment they become engaged, ignoring loved ones and even their fiances in the pursuit of their perfect day, Bride Wars takes every ugly stereotype about women and weddings and dumbs them down even further.

And for this, the generously talented Kate Hudson n Anne Hathaway go through so much humiliation. Hudson is Liv, a high-powered attorney used to getting everything she wants, and Hathaway is Emma, a schoolteacher who makes a great doormat. It's unclear why they would be friends, or why anyone would want to be friends with them, really, but each has landed their own generic, Ken doll fiance (seriously, I spent the entire movie failing to tell the two beaus apart). The guys clearly don't know what they're in for, but don't seem to care, as Liv and Emma track down the city's best wedding planner (Candice Bergen) to ask for, nay, demand, their dream weddings at the Plaza..(hotel ya?)

The wedding planner is supposedly the best in the business, but apparently lacks basic knowledge of Excel, as she books both Liv and Emma's weddings for the same date at the Plaza. The girls, who planned to be each others maids of honor, are faced with a choice. Work it out like adults, or participate in an escalating series of pranks that will provide easy laughs while eventually leading to some rote lessons about the meaning of friendship. You've doubtlessly seen where this goes from here-- one bride is sabotaged by candy and blue hair, the other gets an orange spray tan and a baffling dance lesson. There's a drunk dancing scene thrown in apparently for the benefit of the boyfriends dragged to the theater, and a gaggle of supporting characters who are either so jealous of Emma and Liv's pre-marital bliss that they eat themselves into oblivion, or so unhappy with their own marriages that they're already planning divorce. The options are grim, ladies.

Maybe it's the presence of Hathaway, who was part of the glorious wedding-centric movie Rachel Getting Married, that makes me think of all the ways in which this could have become a real movie, not a fundamental embarrassment. The themes and the messages of the movie, which are shoehorned in at moments when the more vulnerable audience members might cry, actually bring up some interesting topics-- when it's appropriate to stick up for yourself, for example, or what qualities of a relationship might make an actual marriage work.

But this is a movie about weddings, not marriages, and nothing and nobody in Bride Wars seems capable of seeing beyond the white poofy dress and all the onlookers and the day that's about me me me!

The best we can hope for is that Bride Wars will be the last gasp of the wedding-industrial complex, as self-obsessed brides-to-be finally take a look at their dwindling bank accounts and realize that a happy marriage is possible without RM10,000 in flowers to precede it. Because in these tough financial times, there's no reason to spend anything like that on a wedding-- or, come to think of it, the price of a movie ticket on Bride Wars.

Family Moments

Last week my brother in law, Kak Dahlia and their kids did came back to Penang. It just a short trip, just one night only. Its is because we all are going to celebrate my mother in law birthday's!! Here are a few of the happy moments together:- (click here)
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY 'OPAH'

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 56th OPAH

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HAPPY RETIREMENT...!!

Las weekend on Sat, me & my bro had suprised our mum. It was her 56th birthday+her las day b4 she gets retire..!!

Our suprise is.. :-

1. She don't know tat my brother will came back frm KL. Even 'abah' also don't know.. They're not even realize when i'm givin' a "hin" sayin' tat smbodys wil come to our house.

2. My mum thought we all gonna hav a dinner @Queensbay.

3. She tink we just treat her for a dinner, tats all. Not for any reason!!

4. Tis is her 1st time birthday suprise tat her son & daughter planned n guess wat.., we managed to do it!!

When i had received da sms frm my bro askin' me to plan on tis.. I started to tink where we all should do & celebrate it..! Pikiaq punya pikiaq, then Ery suggest y not we do it at Revolving Restaurant, City Bayview. Hemm its a good idea, tq sayang!!

On Friday after work, me n Ery straight went to da place to make a bookin'.. We make an arrangement to suprise her wit a birthday cake. But we've been advised to bring our own (outside) cake bcoz of a different price (mahai tau.. kek dlm hotel!!). When evryting was on da plan, da nex day in da moning..i didn't go for jogging..! Haha, my mum wonderin'.. "Aik, tak p jogging ka pg nie.. aerobik xdak?" Then i'm sayin' tat "Malas la, ngantok!!" (jwpan slamat tu..)

Hehe.. da real is i'm waitin for my bro+kak Dahlia+Syazwan,Syasya+Dayana to arrive. But co-incident.. tat moning also my mum had an invitation frm her workin' place (Loh Guan Lye Specialist Centre Hospital- my mum is a nurse). All her collegue's wanted to do a farewell banquet for her.. Ala, xdpt nk nolong.. When abah sent her, tat moment also my bro arrived. Only when abah came back, he's da first person tat get shock when he saw all his grandchild's was in front of him..!! Got u abah...!! :-)

Tat day also me & Ery had to attend a 'kenduri kawin' @Balik Pulau. It was a wedding of KakSu, Ery's x-officemate. Then after tat, we attend another 'kenduri' at Sg.Pinang.. tis time was Ery's neighbour+childhood fren, Azim. For both couples, "SELAMAT PENGANTIN BARU!!"

Ok, we go back to our plan..

In da evening after attendin' da "kenduri", we went to buy a birthday cake at my customer shop.. Jenny Cake House - i go with a Chocolate Truffle, wow.. frenly speakin' tat cake was so nice, taste like ice-cream cake tau! I had buy it b4... It is around 5pm when we go n send da cake straight to da hotel. Lega coz evryting tat we wanted was on da plan!! After back to house, hehehe.. my mum said to me.. "OOhh tis is da people yg nk mai umah tu..!!" 1st plan to suprise her was success!!

After Maghrib, we all ready to go.. My mum+abah thought tat we all are goin' for dinner @Swensen's as we talked bout it b4. Me & my bro just say it yes... Da best part was when my mum said tat my bro drived in a wrong lane, haha she kept sayin' tis.. "Joy, kita nk p Queensbay... Masok jln nie!!" So do abah.. Hehe sronok jgk tgk gelagat depa!

Once we arrive there, i'm sooo hapi to see my mum+abah faces!! They was so suprised.. 2nd plan also menjadi.. Tat nite da theme was a 'continental buffet'. All da foods was ok, nice n da best part i like from tis restaurant eas their desserts. Yummy... they had a lot of variety of desserts from small cakes to pie, pudding, malay traditional koi n of course an ice-cream(baskin robbins lg).

At Revolving also there was a band tat entertain us everynite. N for da final suprise, i had called da waitress to bring over da birthday cake+request a "Happy Birthday" song. It is a hapi moment i tink for my mum.. she looks soo xcited+suprised (wat else can i describe..). Not even us tat sang da song, let me say.. da whole restaurant had celebrated her birthday by sang along wit us!!

Wah.. so lucky u mak!!

Here r da clip of her suprised birthday to b remembered!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAK!! - WE WISH YOU ALL DA HAPPINESS, MOGA PJG UMUR, MURAH REZEKI.. WE ALL LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! YOU'RE DA BEST MOTHER, FRIEND & PARTNER! ENJOY YOUR RETIREMENT TOO..

Raya pakai 'Terompah'?

Tis is wat we do on last CNY, went to have an ice-cream @Swensen's! But sori to say, its closed..! Da person tat sooo wanted to have an ice-cream its not me.. neither Ery also!

Guess who..? Its my dad, abah la...
Don't know, tetiba ja tringin nak mkn 'bananananaaa split'. Tp xkesampaian.. :( Don't wori abah, i'll redeem back ur desire ok. I luv u..

Then, we just had a dinner @Nando's b4 walk along da mall for window shoppin' la konon! When we past by da Sports shop outlet, RSH.. hmm Ery ask me to join him in. Aik, looks like smbdy nk ajak beli sport shoes ja.. hehehe, not Ery but its me!! Bleh dak? Bleh dak..? Wit 1condition, Ery tell me to b more active. Not just for tis month; tis time;.. forever tu xla but always for my own good sake!

Ok forgot bout tat! Tis time when we all walked from 1shop to another, i was unexpectedly meet up with 1couple tat looks 'different+weird'! Y...? Look down...

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Da couple really attract my attention.. Its bcoz on CNY, n their r wearin' a different clothes from da others! They wearin' a Japanese suit or we called it as 'kimono' (kimono ; pakaian resmi perempuan Jepun) I tink same goes for da guys kot.. they called it kimono, or nano.. pa pun la!

Siap dgn 'terompah' lg tau.. ha, tats y i called them 'c*n* murtad'!! Oopps sori, just my view. Tats all.. Xnmpak pun depa malu dgn pa yg depa pakai, siap dok brgamba lg tau!! When we all look at them, Ery said tat thier r Japanese. But when they came closer, i knew tat they r chinese.(from da way they talked-language)

Hmmm now days when came to CNY, not so many chin*se believe in wearin' RED. Not so many chin*se celebrate their New Year. I don't know y, i don't want to suggest.. Just hope tat we as da citizens or subjects of a country can be seated 2gether, work 2gether, etc n important is- can respect each others!! Tu dh cukop..

New Shoes! Sports one..

As i post before, this along holidays weekend we all are not going anywhere. Last 2 days continues, in the morning we go for jogging and Zura attending the aerobic session for 1 hour starting from 8am-9am.

In the evening we didn't do anything except for today, my father in law ask us to Queensbay because he though for having 'Banana Split' at Swensens. We ask also my sis and brother in law, Abg rahim to join us. Went we arrived there, ala.. forgot that today was 'their day' (GONG XI FA CAI) so not suprised when we saw a lot of outlet was closed today.. and don't forget, tomorrow also!!

So, we expecting the same also on Swensens.. Its true, its closed la abah!! So tak dapat la nak makan Banana Split tu. Then we all decide p makan kat Nando's jelah! Lain kali ya 'bapak metuaku!!'

After makan kekenyangan.. take a slowly walk around the mall, though just going for "window shopping" ja. Then we see there's a sale lagi at RSH, we spending on our new sports shoes!! Semangat nie.. semangat!! Because think of after this we are really going to focus on exercise, why not we buy a sports shoes rather than we both "belasah" our sneakers..!!

So for Zura, dah dapat new shoes tu hope you'll be more excited and goodluck ok.. And guess what, tomorrow morning pun she wanted to go for jogging. She ask also my sis to join her.. Hehe i'm happy to see her so wanted to lose her weight.. (tadi time kat Nando's siap makan kebab tu..)

65 to 48..? 50..? 55..?

C? How maintain i am time married!

After married!!

Hehe.. i tink u all should read a previous post first by Ery b4 read mine..! Its all bout my weight!! I'm so quiry+wori tau.. Wat should i do..?

B4 tis, b4 i'm gettin' married.. my weight only average around 48-52 n its mean tat i am in featherweight cateogary. N now, like Ery said my latest weight was 65kg!! No.. i don't mean to eat everting, everyday!! Just only i'm hapi to serve Ery went he was eatin' n he will approached me to eat wit him 2gether-gether.. :P so of course la cannot tahan kn!

Da latest news is now i 'cannot' wear my fav stuffs anymore!! Ketat sana, ketat sni.. Alamak!! So once i told Ery, (ngadu la konon :P) he sayin' tat he like wat i am now.. Eh, mana bleh babe! Or he said mayb i hav to do da xercise tat i had left behind long time ago..

Hmm.. wonderin' wats goin' to happen if i didn't do anyting, so i decid to go for xercise. Its already a 2nd week since we went for xercise @Taman Belia here. Its also will be holding a "Senamrobik Sessions" every Sunday, 8am in da moning. So i took tis opportunity to get back my ideal weight n try to keep fit la of course!!

Now also i didn't touch "rice" for more than 2weeks already. I'm not really go for diet just only i try to avoid so much carbohydrates for my lunch n go more on vege+protein. I really hope tis 2009 wil bring a new me like b4.. N i replyin' to challenge Ery for maintain back myself. Caiyo Caiyo..

CNY..? JOGGING+AEROBIC

This taken 2days ago

Haha.. Start esok will be holiday again, CNY...!!

First came cross into my mind, "Ha, what to do.. or where to go.. How we gonna plan in a short while....?" Because last 2weeks during New Year we already taken extra leaves to Cameron, so for this time no no..

Zura had ask me if we wanted to going somewhere, but for myside enough to said that we should stay at home and watch DVD ka.. went to 'makan-makan' ka, window shopping (she's gonna loves on this!!!)

One thing, starting tomorrow morning both of us gonna start our activity with jogging at Taman Belia-Kebun Bunga!! Why.. Because Zura felt that she's getting fat!! Oh my..!! She kept saying that she wanted to do something like went for 'liposuction' la.. wanted to go to "MarieFrance" la.. apa tah "London" tah la.. (dia dh buat dh..)

Actually from what i know, her weight before we get married was only 48kg... And guess what now...

48kg + 365days * 3times eating

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12months

HAHAHA... the results now was 65kg!! Oh SAYANG.. Don't worry ok, YOU ARE STILL MY TEDDY BEAR!! I'm not embarrassing you tau, just saying that i'm gonna give my fulled supports to you my dear!

So, for not disappointed her.. i will be her instuctor!! Cewahh.. (bleh jd ka..?) I promise to take her to do some exercises, jogging of course! And on Sunday, we will attend public 'aerobic' also at Taman Belia.

Looking at her, i am so happy with what she's having right now! But not for her.. She so scared let say she couldn't wear her favourite clothes or pants anymore.. She keep saying "ha nanti kena beli baju baru plak, sluaq pun kena bg pair jgk!!" Ala.. nothing posibble sayang..

At least before we get to be parent(hope so..), before to late la..

And we'll see the progress after this ok, maybe 1month after.. i'm gonna update for it!!

THE 7 ESSENTIAL RELATIONSHIP SKILLS

NOW is da perfect time to reorganize our priorities. All da time people invest in Properties, Stock Markets, Art & Painting, Collector'd items, Ancient cars, Education & many more. It is bout time we start investing in da one thing tat matters - our RELATIONSHIP!!

Da truth is, it is da people we are in close & intimate relationships wit who wil be around for us when we need a shoulder to cry on, a helping hand, or just their silent presence in times of sorrow, trials & tribulation.

COMMUNICATION
Tis category involves critically important skills; knowing how to listen, sharing your thoughts & feelings honestly, refraining from criticising & encouraging your partner to share his or her feelings.


CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Conflict resolution skills include techniques such as staying focused on da topic, staying focused o da present, being ready to forgive or apologise, knowing when to take a break.


KNOWLEDGE of PARTNER
Wat's your partner's shirt size? Favourite food? After communication, simply knowing a lot bout your partner is a powerful way of showing tat u care, & makes u better equipped to tend to his or her ongoing needs.


LIFE SKILLS
Do u plan for emergencies? DO u exercise & stay fit? (hehe..alamak, not me la!!) Studies show tat people usuakky want their partners to contribute a degree of security to a long-term relationship. People also want their partners to take good care of themselves.


SELF MANAGEMENT
Tis is not da same as life skills. People who are skilled at self management take inventories of their strenghts & weaknesses and always strive for improvement. They know how to interpret(explain) disturbing events in positive ways & they work hard to reach their goals.


SEX & ROMANCE
Ha.. nie best!!
People wit strong skills in these areas enquire & care bout how to please their partner sexually, set aside time for intimacy, refrain from blaming their partner when sex does not go smoothly, & try to stay physically attractive for their partner..
So, wat u're waiting for.. ? Do it now, change!!


STRESS MANAGEMENT
Do u know how to deal wit stress? If u do, u wil be better able to LOVE & SUPPORT ur partner.

Guys, why i post all tis..? Mayb when i read down all da transcriptions wrote by Karen Kow, D.Mpsy., Founder & Director of Path To Excellence it felt like i missed someting!!

Syasya 4th Besday**

buffday girl, SYASYA

da cake
abang Syazwan wit his 'chicken'

my 3 stooges

Acu rindu smua...!!

H/Phone Conversation between Opah & Syasya..

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OPAH:- Hello Syasya, HAPI BIRTHDAY!!

SYASYA:- Elo Opah, Hapi Besday Opah..!

OPAH:- Aik, arini birthday Syasya la.. bknnya Opah..!

SYASYA:- HAPI BESDAY SYASYA..!! :P

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Tat was had happen 2days ago. It was my niece 4th buffday, Syasya. Now she can 'menyampuk' & talk straightly bout anyting tat we know.

From TokWan, Opah, Acu+Paksu @Penang.. we all wish u HAPPY BUFFDAY 4th SYASYA.

Acu wish u 'cepat2 besa', be more cantik.. comel!! And Acu wil get for u a "BARBIE" tat u wish for when i see u gain ok!! Its a promise, i wil!! Acu LOVE u...

KaraOKE Session!!

Our buddies new year activity was held @RedBox. We gathered after work around 630pm at RedBox Gurney last Friday.

So.. pa lagi, semua melalak sakan la. Until the times up pun, ada yang dok nyanyi lagi hehe.. its me la tu..!! hua hua hua :P

Its been a while after we all didn't went for karaoke session. So, for release our tension for a new year works.. we took a chance for singing + eating!!

P/S:- Everyones had a great times, good songs & filled with foods... We went back home felt so tired and had a very nice
sleep until the next day!!

Syazwan 1st day in 'office' eh.. School!!

be good ok @school

cayalah, wearing necktie lg!!

smua ada, Syazwan.. Dayana, Syasya, Dada xcept Mummy

Hehe.. :p I'm so hapi to know tat my da only 1 nephew (my only bro son) goin' to school already. He's now in standard 1!! Congratulations Abg Syazwan..!!

He's now schooling at Sekolah Kebangsaan Selayang Jaya BBA 7219 near to my bro house. Good to hear from my bro tat he didn't make any behave in da moning (wake up time) or at school.

Acu so proud of u ok Syazwan... I hope to see u in ur school uniform asap!

Weekend @Cameron

nice face Ery!!

Wah, it seems like a bz day for me tis week. Keja relief, yg las week pending + have to cover 3dept!! Huh.. but never mind, i had done it before. Just for da 1st day in a new year after a long.. long holidays, I SHOULD BE SO LAZY!! HAHAHAHA :P

As for a new year holiday, we make our move to Cameron. Only a nite over there, together wit us is my sista in law+her hubby.. We stay at Century Pines Resorts at Tanah Rata only for 1nite. (book online senang).

For las year actually, me n Ery had been to Cameron already for 3times. N for tis time, actually me wanted to fulfilled my sista in law wishes wit her hubby. Their las trip to Cameron was bout 10-15years ago!! Oh my... pity them!!

So, me n Ery decide to take our new year leave on Friday(2th Jan).. We start our journey early in da moning so at least we reached there not so late.. After takin' lunch, we check in around 1340pm.. rest at room until after Maghrib only we went to Brinchang for steamboat dinner+shoppin' at Pasar Malam Brinchang. Best, syiok coz we can buy a fresh strawberry, veges.. plus we can try "sayur grg". Slurrpp deli..

Nex day, after bfast.. we check out from da resort n straight to Brinchang town again for shoppin'!! Its not so tired coz we went back to Penang on da same day.. Well at least for da nex day, Sunday.. we already at home before da workin' day started!! Hehehe..

Early Year Holidays!!

I'll come back wit da post ok.. its a promise!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR- Goodbye 2008, Welcome 2009

Hi guys, salam tahun baru from me & Zura! From the beginning year of 2008 until lah yesterday, there's a lot of memories either in happiness or sadness.

Early year, i started my new life as a husband to Zura... Marriage life was a wonderful moments to me. Each day i had learn a new things, do a new things, and always wanted to create a new things that will changes my future life with Zura. So do Zura.. she had try to be a good wife to me, take a good care of me, always needed me to be with her..

And our marriage journeys had turn to 1year. Hope the next next year will be more bless from our family and Allah S.W.T. Amin..

Along year 2008, i've done my works properly, i guess!! But friendly speaking, i'm looking forward to get a better new job this year.. Any vacancies..? For Zura, she's looking ok with her working line. Of course she did mention about her stress if she got any problems at office, but she never bring it back home.

Last year, Alhamdulillah because i didn't get any major sickness. Just i think (lupa sket) around in September i did had a bad influenza. It takes me around a week before i got better again. Zura, actually she just get well from a bad sore throat and a flu also.. Pity her, because she refused not to go and see a doctor.. At night, she cannot even sleep because of cannot breath in proper way. Thanks to Breathe Right..

My family.. their are just a best peoples in my life!! Even from my in law side, i am so lucky to have them.. In last year, i had a good moments.. laughter.. holidays together.

Last, i welcome 2009 as a new year in my life.. Either it will be a good or not, its all depends on me. I hope to be more better in works (maybe in a new job), as an example husband.. maybe with a new family member (jadi ayah ka..insyaallah).

Goodbye, 2008...